What ever happened to the single income family? It died
that’s what happened. For the majority of American families
it’s just not feasible. This is very unfortunate that
it’s pretty much a necessity to have two incomes coming into
the household. Unless you are making a nice six figure income.
Well I am one of the lucky families that
are managing to be a single income household, and before you ask. No I
do not make a nice six figure income. The only way I make a six figure
income is if you start counting decimal places. I do make a pretty good
living, but it doesn’t allow my family any great luxuries.
I’m married and have two children, and I‘m very
grateful that we are able to keep my wife home with the kids.
Let’s see the house is nothing special maybe 1200 square feet
three small bedrooms and one bathroom. Did I mention I live in
Connecticut? Which lets just say isn’t the cheapest state to
live in.
I sometimes wonder how my wife and I are able to pull this single
income household off. We are not financial wizards we don’t
have our families subsidizing us. We just try to live within our means.
This seems to be an alien concept to most of American now days. We had
to prioritize what was most important to the household and
that’s how the money would be spent. There isn’t
much of a budget for frivolous spending anymore. I’d like to
have that part of the budget back as much as the next guy, but
it’s just not happening. Let’s see some of the ways
we try and save money. Like I said we are not financial advisors or
anything of the sort just regular people trying to make ends meet. So
here we go a few of our techniques we use. I’m sure these
will probably be redundant as you’ve all heard of these
before. The problem is people don’t use them. I believe the
reason that most people don’t use these available options is
because of pride. Pride can be a very positive thing when it allows you
strength to overcome obstacles you might face. On the other hand you
can be blinded by pride, and not ask for help when you need it, or not
take some of the options available to you because you are too proud.
Lunch: Bringing you lunch to work. This one has been huge for us. I try
and bring my lunch to work everyday. Once in awhile I’ll
treat myself and buy lunch. I used to buy lunch everyday and maybe a
coffee in the morning. It was costing me at least $10 a day.
You might be saying that doesn’t sound like much. It
doesn’t when it’s one day but it works out to
roughly $200 a month that’s a lot of money. So needless to
say bringing your lunch to work can be a great way to save a decent
amount of money.
Wholesale Clubs: While these can be a big help you need to really check
the prices as some of the items might actually be cheaper in your local
grocery store. My family uses these clubs and they can be a great help.
I’m just saying to investigate the price per unit as it might
be cheaper else where. Sometimes you just don’t need 15lbs of
ketchup.
Groceries: Use coupons! They work I know in my younger days
I’d be to proud to use them. Not anymore. You don’t
always have to buy the brand name product. A lot of the time the
generic is just as good. Sometimes it’s not close, but
you’ll just have to experiment.
Clothes/Shoes: If you insist that your kids have to wear all name brand
high end clothes look outside of the department stores. Especially if
your kids are young they’re going to outgrow the clothes and
shoes in a week. Try Ebay you can find tons of clothes if you know what
you’re looking for. I must say my wife has been doing this
for years now and has pretty much clothed our kids for nothing. Other
sites like ours help people to find the best Deals On Infant
& Toddler Clothes, also try second hand
stores. I guarantee with a little looking you’ll find some
very nice clothing whether it comes from a thrift or consignment store.
Baby Food/Diapers: These are incredible expenses go to the company of
your choices website and sign up for their mailing list or coupon list.
We receive a few five dollar coupons a month and every little bit helps.
I wish you all the best. Even if you aren’t able to be a
single income family hopefully a few of these tips will help out. Just
don’t be to proud to use some of the tips.